Friday, June 9, 2017

April and May: The home stretch before summertime

Greetings friends and family!

It’s hard to believe that almost 2 months have passed since I last wrote a blog post, but time flies these days! In the past few weeks, our lives have been filled with the excitement of the wrap up of a school year (for me) and the anticipation of what is to come! It is fun to have this excitement and anticipation to break up the normal routines of our lives.

I’m going to back up a little and start with when our lives were still pretty routine, going about the normal school year, back in April. Nick and I were both kept busy with Holy Week services, with his assisting or preaching at each service that week, and my singing with the choir in many of those services as well. I always appreciate the few days that I have off of school in order to spend that time at church and catching up on sleep after a long day of Easter services. A family in the congregation was kind enough to invite us over for Easter dinner. It was fun to enjoy their company and the freedom from having to cook a holiday meal for just the two of us

After Easter, things got pretty busy for a few weeks. School kept me busy through extra meetings and preparation for the school musical, which I am in charge of. It’s always pretty hectic in that last week as we try and get the last practices finished and those last details taken care of, but it is one of the most worthwhile experiences of my school year every year. Being able to hear the children sing, act, and proclaim the message of Christ to those who come watch them, and hearing the excitement from the parents and grandparents after the performance, are some of my favorite memories of each school year. This year, it was made extra special by the fact that Nick’s family was here to watch it and see the product of my work.
At the seminary's commencement service wit h Mark

Speaking of that, we got a visit from Nick’s family in late April, for an even more exciting day (for his brother, Mark), Call Day! They flew in late on a Tuesday night, arriving at our house after we had gone to sleep. Wednesday evening after school, I joined the whole family at Mark’s house and we went to the seminary for the call service. It is always an exciting service, especially since we had many friends getting their calls – some expected, some totally out of the blue, and some very, very exciting. After Call Day on Wednesday, a birthday dinner for Nick’s mom, Cathy, on Thursday, and the school musical on Friday, we were very ready for the weekend! It was a short visit, but very nice to be able to get some family time.

We’ve also been fortunate to see some other wonderful friends over the course of April and May, which was so much fun. Our group of friends from seminary was scattered all over the country for vicarage, but we’ve gotten to see most of them in the last few months! Several of our friends are working from home while on vicarage, while still based in St. Louis, so they have to make work trips back to St. Louis on occasion. This meant that in April, my friend Ashley (also on local vicarage) and I got to spend time with several of our friends when they were in town, which is always a wonderfully refreshing and enjoyable time. In May, Nick and I were excited to see some other friends when they came to St. Louis for commencement at the Seminary – some of our friends because they were graduating from the deaconess program, and some who came to celebrate graduation with others. It’s been an exciting time, because we’re all gearing up to return to St. Louis for our last year of seminary, making plans for where we will live and when we will move. Graduation day was actually the day that on-campus housing sent out housing assignments, so we were excited to talk about how close we will be living to each other!
A visit from some wonderful friends!

Back to the last week of April – it was an extremely busy week, so on Saturday, I was thankful for a day to rest and have some friends over in the evening. It was also a very stormy day, with thunderstorms backed up one behind another. We woke up, ready to go for a run, and when we heard thunder, we thought, “Well, we can wait until this passes.” Then we looked at the weather radar and realized the storm wouldn’t be passing anytime soon. Sure enough, it rained and stormed all day, pretty much keeping us home from any errands we could run. But it was enjoyable and we kept the doors open to enjoy the sound and smell of the rain. I didn’t realize how extreme the storms had been until I drove to school on Monday morning. For a little background information, I take three highways to get to my school. Highway 100 takes me about 10 miles pretty much from our house straight southeast to Highway 44. Highway 44 takes me about 25 miles east toward St. Louis. Then, I exit onto Highway 141, which I follow for just about a mile or two until I get to my school. On that Monday morning, I started driving to work, probably listening to Hamilton (apparently I should’ve been listening to the news), and when I approached my exit to 141, I saw signs saying the exit was closed due to flooding. Thankfully, I could easily drive past that exit and to the next exit and get to school no problem, but many people trying to go the other way were stuck in traffic for an hour or more. Upon arriving at school, the concern of the other teachers at my commute prompted me to look at the news – it turns out that the flooding was only getting worse (apparently that’s how it works) as the river crested, and that there were plans to close Highway 44 as well. That put a huge damper on my already 45-minute long commute. Thankfully, I got home Monday night before they closed the highway, but I had to make plans for the next day and the possibility of getting stuck in hours of traffic on the alternate route (after the ice storm in December and getting stuck for 3 hours, I was prepared for something like that again). So I made plans for a sub in the morning in case I couldn’t get there in time for the start of school, packed a bag that night, and planned to stay the night at another teacher’s house on Tuesday, as the river was not expected to crest until Wednesday, and we knew there would be road closures for the rest of the week. Tuesday morning, I woke up early and left the house by 6:00, making it to school in time for devotions at about 7:40. I had to take a long alternate route that was clogged up with everyone else doing the same thing, but it could’ve been worse. Thankfully, with the planned road closures that MODOT was updating throughout the day on Tuesday, before the end of the school day, our principal decided to close school for the next two days because too many teachers and students would not be able to get to school. So I rushed out of school that afternoon, and got home about 2 hours later, and then didn’t leave the house for two more days! On Friday morning, school was open again, and Highway 44 was opened up before my commute that morning, so I was able to make that drive in a decent amount of time. By Tuesday the next week, 141 was open again, and I was never so thankful for a normal commute! We are thankful that many communities were better prepared for the flooding this time around, but we know that some people are still struggling to recover their homes and businesses, even a month later.


After that week, May ran like a normal May. I had the anticipation and work for getting ready for the end of the school year – graduation, field trips, field day, packing up and cleaning out everything! It’s always a fun time of year, even though it can be very tiring. It’s still hard to believe it was only a few weeks ago that I spent the last day with my kids and that I will be welcoming a new group soon! Nick has kept extremely busy with preaching – preaching most of the Sundays in May, as well as leading Bible studies as usual, and working to plan for VBS and a summer basketball camp that he is in charge of. He also organized another event for the young adults ministry, which is growing and thriving! We are praying that it continues to grow even as the next vicar steps in and starts bringing new people into the community of the church.

RiverTown Run - Nick ran the half marathon, I ran the 5K
During May, Nick accomplished a really impressive personal goal – to run a half marathon by himself. We have run several half marathons together over the last few years, and it has been a really fun way for us to spend time together. However, I chose not to run the half marathon that was coming up in Washington in May. Nick decided he still wanted to do it. So he trained by himself (running up to 12 miles each week alone!), running in the afternoons before I got home from work, and eventually, finished the half marathon in a great time, at about 2 hours and 2 minutes! This beat our first half marathon time of 2:05, which is extremely impressive considering he was running without a buddy and having to conquer all of Washington’s hills on top of that! I joined in the fun by running the 5K race that day.


We are enjoying what June has brought us. Even though I finished up school two weeks ago, the time since then has been busy with teacher meetings and cleaning up and wrapping up the year. I have kept busy this week between doing some teaching at our school’s summer camp, as well as trying to work ahead to get ready for next school year. I know it’s a bit crazy to be working ahead this early, but between the vacation we are planning in late July and having to move back to the seminary in August, I know that this is my best time to start preparing for the new school year. Next week will be VBS at Immanuel, which Nick and I are both helping with, and then another week of summer camp and working in my classroom while Nick prepares for the time that Pastor will be out of town and for his basketball camp.

Even in the midst of the work, however, we have been enjoying summer. Even though we’ve both been keeping pretty regular hours at work, we are enjoying the flexibility of summer, meaning sleeping in a little bit, and enjoying more relaxed afternoons and evenings. We’ve been spending time with friends in the evenings, as well as enjoying our most recent purchase – some new lawn chairs and a table so we can more easily spend time out on the back porch during those beautiful evening hours. We actually just enjoyed a nice dinner outside, chatting and observing the wildlife in our backyard.

Some exciting news that recently came about is that we have officially paid off the loan that we had on our car! We purchased this car three years ago, before getting married and moving to St. Louis, with the help of my dad, and we are so excited to have paid off the loan two years early! We are now down to only one debt left, which are Nick’s student loans. Thankfully, his loans have not been accruing interest, since they are all subsidized and have been deferred as he has been in school full time since graduating college. In addition, we haven’t had to take out any new loans to cover the cost of seminary, so we are currently accomplishing our goal of leaving seminary with less debt than we entered with. We are even hoping to leave seminary debt free! It is a lofty goal, but God has shown us over the last few years that He is capable of so much more than we ever thought possible, and with the generous gifts that we have received, we have paid off large debts in just a few short years.

Well, three pages later and I think I’ve got you all pretty up-to-date on what’s going on here in Missouri. Watch the next few months for updates from vacations and our move back to the seminary!

In the name of Christ our Savior,

Nick and Mikaela Duerr